What happens to Bullies?
Friday, 17 October 2008 18:42
FAQThe life-long outlook for bullies is not good. If bullies don't learn how to change their behavior, the pattern of bullying behavior often becomes a habit as the bully gets older.

Bullies have average social popularity up to approximately age 14 or 15. In fact, some children even look up to bullies in some ways because they are powerful and do what they want to, or have to, to get their way with their peers. However, by late adolescence, the bully's popularity begins to wane. By senior high school, if a bully is still attending school, his or her peers group includes other bullies, or more seriously, he or she has developed or is developing gang alliances. By late high school, school-yard bullying is a rare occurrence, but what takes its place is more serious.

By age 24, up to sixty percent of people who are identified as childhood bullies have at least one criminal conviction. A study spanning 35 years by psychologist E. Eron at the University of Michigan found that children who were named by their school mates, at age eight, as the bullies of the school were often bullies throughout their lives. In this longitudinal study of bullies, many of these children, as adults, required more support from government agencies (Psychology Today, Sept. 1995). For example, these children later had more court convictions, more alcoholism, more antisocial personality disorders and used more of the mental health services than the other children.

Unless new behaviors are learned and adopted, bullies continue to bully throughout their lifetime. They bully their mates, their children, and possibly their underlings in their place of business. Bullying gets them what they want, and although some bullies learn to refine the art of bullying in their professional lives and use it in situations where there is a power imbalance, it creates less than harmonious relations in the workplace.
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DAMIEN ALANIZ said:

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February 25, 2009 9:20am
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some girl said:

school work
i am doing a school exposition on bullying and i needed to know aboout the long-term effects on bullies to give my presentation that final touch. This site really helped thanks smilies/smiley.gif
BTW: i think it's really interesting about what happens to the bullies once they reach a certain age.
what goes around comes around i guess smilies/tongue.gif
thanks heaps
bye xxx
 
September 09, 2009 2:49am
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i hate being a bully , Low-rated comment [Show]

austin said:

I HATE YOU ALL :)
I HATE BEING BULLEID.
BECAUSE I AM A NERD.
I HATE IT WHEN I GET BEAT UP.
I HATE IT WHEN I GET SHOVE IN THE LOCKERS.
AND GET THROWNED IN THE GARBAGE CAN AND EVERYTIME
I GO HOME I SMELL LIKE POO.
ALSO BECAUSE "NEVER IN MY LIFE I KISSED A GIRL AND
I NEVER WENT OUT WITH A GIRL
AND I AM 16 YEARS OLD...

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December 03, 2009 12:58pm
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all of it is a lie....., Low-rated comment [Show]

austin said:

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it's true it's a lie
 
December 03, 2009 1:03pm
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kaelin moore said:

bulling
smilies/grin.gif bulling is a problem in the world right now and it is effecting chrildren globlelysmilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif
 
December 10, 2009 8:32am
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chicken said:

raaaaaaaaaaarggggg!!!
well... all of you bullies need to get a life!! i hate bully's there stupid and just need to stop. smilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/shocked.gifsmilies/shocked.gifsmilies/shocked.gifsmilies/shocked.gifsmilies/shocked.gifsmilies/wink.gifsmilies/wink.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/grin.gifsmilies/grin.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/shocked.gifsmilies/shocked.gif
 
March 30, 2010 6:23am
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Ash said:

interesting
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It's interesting what happens to people who get bullied later in life. There are different reasons people bully to begin with. Some of them may wisen up, some don't.

I got bullied throughout grade school (kindergarten till senior year of high school and boy let me tell you it was horrible. What was even worse was the fact I went home to abusive parents every day, so I didn't know which was better (being beaten up by mother or being beaten up and having my money stolen by bullies.).

An interesting think is during high school one of the bullies got pregnant in her sophomore year and dropped out of high school...

I still got abusive parents now, but at least I don’t also have crazy jerks breathing down my neck…
 
July 19, 2010 7:28pm
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sinbin said:

Problem with bullies
Bulies are selfish,cold,liers, munupulative, evil. The fact is bullies have seen violence but have not felt violence. One my see his mum and dad argue but may not physicaly get hit by his parents. Its as simple as this if you get abused by your parents then you will get abused through out your life.This also means that you will not eat,sleep, think well,not get a girlfreand and ultimately become weaker as time goes on, not to mention become more unhappy. If you do not get hit by your parents then your ego and confidence grows through out your life. This means that you eat well, sleep well, get phiycaly stronger,get happily marrige, think quicker and are happy with there lives. This is the reality of it! This is primitivity at its finest.

What we all must realize is that we are not animals! as human beings we are ment to be better than animals but right now we are the same or even below animals. We humans have knowledge, creativity and passion. I belive a human being should be commited, understanding, and warm at heart. These words should guide even the coldest person in the right direction. I belive anyone can perfect him/her self if they want to. I feel it is meant to be, humans are in there own right supiriour beings on earth. We will only be ready for the stars when we master ourselves.smilies/smiley.gif This is the reson why violence and image is stupid it is getting us nowear. Do not give in to image
 
August 09, 2010 1:52pm
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emm said:

why?
bullies are just stupid i dont understand the point of bullying. im also doing a school assignment and this helps alot thanks you muchllyy smilies/smiley.gif
 
August 19, 2010 2:35am
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paula said:

i remember........
one day a kid was getting beat up in school by these stupid kids!!! the kids told the little boy something sooooo bad........ the next day..... he was not at school. days later the police found him dead in a canal....... it was really sad
 
October 19, 2010 3:31pm
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Cam said:

Bullies
Bullies get a fen life you guys suck balls smilies/grin.gifsmilies/grin.gifsmilies/cool.gifsmilies/tongue.gifsmilies/tongue.gifsmilies/tongue.gifsmilies/shocked.gif
 
November 15, 2010 7:59am
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bob said:

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bullies suck!!!!!smilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gif
 
November 19, 2010 9:35am
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Felix Cruz said:

bullies
bullies have no live they get betten at home and take it out on kids i would now because i now this bully but he whasent always like that when i was 6 my friend was at home and i was on the bus i heard yelling at his house and say him betten
he was crying the morning he was brused i asked if he was okay he was still bleeding from being bet and he yelled at me and ran the next day he had a black and blue eye and from then on he is still bet and he still bulliessmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gif
 
November 22, 2010 9:27am
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jenanda said:

lalala
we cant find anything on 'concequences of bullying. smilies/sad.gif
 
December 10, 2010 8:35am
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luke said:

bullys
i hate bullies thay call me retardsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cheesy.gifsmilies/grin.gif
 
December 30, 2010 4:41am
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Ash said:

Bullies grown up
All nerds out there don't worry about those stupid bullies any bet later on in life they will have no job and probably still be living with their parents. Nerds will always win in life. You will be successful in life while poor bullies are working at fish n chip shop.
 
January 13, 2011 9:24am
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christopher jones said:

a message to bullies
hello my name chris and i send a important message to the bullies out there
i think you bullies need to get somewhere and sit down because you is hurted everbody around you and thats really sad because i have been bully by a person i did;t like but i stand up to for myself and think you can do the same for yourself and we people need to stand up for ourselvessmilies/wink.gif
 
February 11, 2011 5:53am
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conlan said:

April 26, 2011 7:45am
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Makela said:

???
Im in middle school and i have a question to the people who got bullied or people who bullied other kids...
for people who bullied why did you bully them were you jealous of them or did you just not have a live...
for the people who got bullied did you give them a reason to bully you and can you tell me how you handled it...
 
May 03, 2011 12:49pm
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Makela said:

????
it for my research paper..
thank you
plz answer
 
May 03, 2011 12:50pm
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raul said:

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bcause they have no life
 
May 04, 2011 8:58am
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JF said:

What if we marked Bullies like we do Sex offenders?
I thought of an interesting way to stop or slow down the bulling issues in schools and in life in general. If you are caught bulling someone. You get labeled just as sex offender is labeled. Currently there is no real crime being committed. But when you hear about the young kids killing themselves because they are being bullied so badly. Why should these bullies get to get away with such things. This should follow them the remainder of their lives. A sex offender has to register with city when they move to the area. Why shouldn't a bully have to do the same? This might help stop or even slow the harmful effects that bulling others causes. This is a crime that seriously goes unpunished, making it acceptable. Well it is no longer acceptable. Something needs to be done!
Thanks for reading my opinion
 
May 05, 2011 10:49pm
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sam said:

calm down!!!...
smilies/smiley.gif everyone should like calm down cause bullying is not a big deal. its like anyone cares about it anymore. and i know that u guys are all just faking it... i had enough of talking about bullying cause im writing a 2500 word essay bout bullying
 
May 14, 2011 6:34pm
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scue u bullys said:

hay
i hav been bullyed my self and i know from being bullyed myself that bulling is dangais and people do do suaside because they atuly baleave what people say they dont want to but they cant help it





so scue u bullys
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May 25, 2011 10:11pm
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May 25, 2011 10:17pm
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bonnie porter said:

my solution to austin getting bullyed
austin you can kiss me i got some juicy ass lips....btw if you cash me out ill be your girlfriend
 
October 20, 2011 10:16am
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rather not say said:

being bully is effecting my life.
i have been bullied for little over a month now. and i have tried everything i can to ignore it. but its getting the best of me. and as the time goes by the rods get worse and hurt more then what they already did. but im dealing with it in a way that i thought i could never do. im walking away from it and being the bigger person instead of reacting on it. i would rather ignore the issue then deal with it. anyone being bullied can overpwer it by ignoring it. you just have to have enough strenght to.
 
March 14, 2012 5:55am
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chickeneater said:

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i hate bullying people smilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gif
 
March 19, 2012 9:34am
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mary said:

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i hate being bullied because i had sex with a guy
 
March 21, 2012 6:09am
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mary said:

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i hate being bullied cause im a nerd and were ugly colthes and nerdy
 
March 21, 2012 6:10am
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Timber Chipps said:

bullies
I can't find anything on bullie's can you help me some way? This is for a health project that is due tomorrow. So is there a way you can help me?smilies/cry.gif
 
April 18, 2012 12:01pm
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Jackie said:

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I really don't see what's so bad about being a bully. It really can help tool for you get what you want. You just need to be careful not to break any laws or physically harm anyone. A good bully should be smart. He must be brave and daring. It's just a matter of knowing what you want and then using others to get it.
 
October 03, 2012 7:18am
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matthew said:

says
I GET BULLYED HOW COME THEY THINK THEY BIGGER THAN ME FROM YEAR 1-10 NOW PRESENT DAY PEOPLE PLEASE HELP AND STOP BULLYING ITS NOT NICE ITS JUST A BRICK WALL CANNOT DO ANY TING CUZZ THEY LIVE NEARE U AND WONT TO HURT U ITS NOT GOOD HELP ME STOP I DONT WONNA BE BULLIED FOR THE NEXT 2 YEARS OF MY LIFE WELL 1 SO PLEASE HELP ME STOP smilies/cry.gif
 
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